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Recovering Our Humanity In A World Of Noise

  • Written by Mark J. Chironna, PhD.


Felix Frankfurter, a towering figure on the United States Supreme Court from 1939 to 1962, embodied a legal philosophy rooted deeply in deliberation and careful consideration. Born in Vienna in 1882 and emigrating to the United States as a child, Frankfurter carried with him a deeply-honed respect for democratic processes and the disciplined reasoning necessary for a stable society. His career was marked by a consistent commitment to restraint, to thoughtful dialogue, and to preserving conditions conducive to meaningful civic reflection.

This philosophical commitment became vividly clear in his dissenting opinion in the 1948 Supreme Court case, Saia v. New York. At issue was whether a city's noise ordinance, which restricted loudspeakers without permits, infringed upon the First Amendment. Justice William O. Douglas, writing for the majority, argued that unrestricted public discourse, amplified or otherwise, was central to democracy. Frankfurter, dissenting vigorously, emphasized a very different principle: that democracy itself depends fundamentally upon quiet spaces where thoughtful deliberation can flourish. He reminded his colleagues that the framers of the Constitution, understanding how crucial uninterrupted silence was to their work, had "the street outside Independence Hall covered with earth so that their deliberations might not be disturbed by passing traffic." For Frankfurter, this historical detail was more than symbolic, it underscored his conviction that genuine democratic discourse required protected silence, a sanctuary from the relentless noise of public life.

Justice Frankfurter’s emphasis on silence went beyond mere rhetoric, becoming integral to his judicial philosophy. He consistently advocated judicial restraint, viewing thoughtful quietness and reflective pause as foundational to fair and stable governance. Judges, like all citizens, he suggested, benefit from moments of stillness and disciplined reflection, providing space for careful reasoning rather than quick activism. His vision was less about imposing silence than about fostering an environment where democracy could mature thoughtfully, nourished by quiet reflection as surely as by vibrant debate.

Frankfurter’s reflections on silence extended far beyond the courthouse, resonating deeply within broader cultural contexts. The earth spread on the streets outside Independence Hall symbolized more than practical noise reduction—it represented deliberate attention to cultivating spaces for meaningful dialogue. Democracy, he believed, flourishes most genuinely in environments intentionally preserved from distraction, spaces quiet enough to nurture authentic conversation and responsible decision-making.

This vision continues to echo through various contexts today. Alain Corbin reminds us that silence historically offered far more than mere absence of noise. In settings as diverse as early modern religious spaces and secular educational systems, quiet signified readiness, respect, and thoughtful engagement. Silence, Corbin notes, "can spread among groups as powerfully as laughter"i, underscoring how it shapes social interactions and shared understanding.

In certain institutional settings, silence has also served as a practice fostering self-discipline and mutual respect. Schools and military traditions have long recognized quiet as a means of promoting orderly behavior, disciplined engagement, and personal integrity. The French military’s characterization as "la grande muette" illustrates how shared silence can become a powerful demonstration of unity, resilience, and mutual commitment. Similarly, Michel Foucault noted that carefully cultivated silence in educational or military contexts played a significant role in building collective discipline and personal responsibility through regular, reflective practice.ii

Silence invites rather than demands, quietly shaping human relationships and interactions in ways that enable rather than constrain thoughtful presence, authentic listening, and reflective self-awareness. Silence is also complex. It can deepen thoughtful discourse, safeguard personal reflection, or, in other circumstances, subtly encourage conformity. Rather than being a neutral state, silence reveals underlying assumptions about authority, about whose voices we value, and about when we choose speech or yield to quietness.

George Prochnik shares a compelling account of exploring silence through a conversation with astronaut Sunita Williams (who recently along with Butch Wilmore unexpectedly had to survive in space for 9 months). Prochnik initially believed that astronauts encounter the most striking contrasts of noise and silence, he imagined the roar of rocket launches and the deep quiet of space as incomparable opposites. After persistent efforts, he secured a brief interview with Williams (prior to her recent extended period on the International Space Station), whose remarkable background at the time, already included over "2,770 hours in space," extensive combat squadron experience, and notable athletic pursuits such as "running, swimming, biking, triathlons, windsurfing, snowboarding and bow hunting.”iii

Surprisingly, Williams quickly dispelled most of Prochnik’s assumptions. Rocket launches, she clarified, were no longer exceptionally loud due to NASA’s sophisticated "noise-abatement work," including redesigned ventilation systems, advanced earplugs, and specialized "tonal measures" embedded in the space station itself.iv Spacewalks, likewise, did not provide the expected absolute quiet (which even in space is impossible as particles retain energy even at absolute zero). Ground control maintained continual contact, ensuring astronauts received frequent, detailed instructions, preventing any true experience of silence.v

Yet, after Prochnik’s embarrassment at having misread so much about Williams’ experiences, a revealing moment occurred. Williams recalled one unique episode during a spacewalk when Houston requested the crew wait quietly through a "night pass," the interval when the spacecraft orbits Earth's shadow side. During this interval, communications ceased, leaving Williams and her fellow astronaut suspended outside, experiencing what we might call almost true silence. Williams described the moment vividly: "So we were just hanging out there, quiet, just hearing ourselves breathe out there at the end of the station.vi

In this quiet pause, clarity emerged. She recounted the experience as akin to "putting on a pair of glasses," suddenly making everything "all at once so clear, like after a wonderful rainstorm." Williams added, "You could see the stars really bright. You could see the depth of space."vii In that fleeting interval of almost true silence, Williams confronted the vast and luminous expanse of the universe itself.

Sunita Williams’ moment in space reveals something essential about how silence shapes our understanding of reality. We assume silence means simply the lack of sound. Yet, in that moment floating quietly, silence opened up a richer, clearer awareness of existence. It taught her that silence carries its own unique meaning, It’s a pathway toward deeper insight and understanding, revealing truths that noise conceals. All true mystics have instinctively known this down through the ages.

We often think knowledge comes primarily from external voices and constant communication. Yet Sunita’s story clearly corrects that assumption. In a brief, quiet moment, a fresh way of seeing emerged, not through instructions or chatter, but through silence itself. Silence deepened her clarity, sharpened her vision, and allowed her a kind of knowing that was immediate, intuitive, and personal.

This account invites reflection on the experience of silence as a powerful, transformative event. Suspended in that quiet moment, breathing slowly, noticing vividly the brightness of stars and the vastness of space, silence wasn’t just heard; it was felt, lived, and embodied. Silence brought a sudden, tangible awareness of the immediate surroundings, sharpening all senses and intensifying the vividness of the present moment.

We believe knowledge flows from information; external voices and constant communication. But then, far above Earth, in a rare and unplanned moment of stillness, another kind of knowing quietly emerged. Williams found herself without instruction or commentary, surrounded instead by true silence. In that space, her vision sharpened; she didn’t absorb an insight, she lived it.

This isn’t knowledge we learn. It’s knowledge we are, borne in a suspended moment of presence. Her clarity wasn’t the result of analysis; it was immediate, intuitive, intimate. In the quiet, she encountered reality unfiltered. That is what direct experience looks like: unmediated, embodied, alive. It’s not something we process; it’s something we receive and become. And silence is its gateway.

When we finally pause long enough to let silence speak, we move beyond what we’ve been told or taught. We step into what is actually happening, what is actually us. It’s in that place, the living, breathing present, that our true knowing resides.

Prochnik points to the origins of the word "silence," noting its Gothic root, "anasilan," meaning "the wind dying down," and its Latin root, "dēsinere," meaning "stop."viii Each of these roots opens a meaningful window into how we experience silence in our lives.

Consider first the Gothic imagery: "the wind dying down." We've all felt the wind diminish after a storm or a sudden gust. As the wind fades, our senses heighten. The quieting breeze creates a subtle shift in our awareness, revealing sounds previously obscured, rustling leaves, distant birdcall, even the rhythm of our breathing. In that fading wind, silence emerges not as absence but as presence. It's a felt shift, an inward turning that invites deeper listening and greater attentiveness to what usually goes unnoticed.

The Latin root "dēsinere," meaning "stop," speaks differently to us. To "stop" involves intention, conscious pause, the halting of activity. It suggests something decisive rather than gradual, a purposeful cessation. Unlike the gradual quieting of the wind, "stop" implies a deliberate act of will, choosing to cease doing, moving, or speaking. Silence here isn't gently found but actively chosen.

Together, these two roots give us complementary understandings of silence. One, the gentle fading of external disturbances that allows awareness to blossom naturally; the other, the deliberate pause, a chosen quietness that creates room for intentional, attentive presence. Together, both roots suggest silence emerges precisely through an interruption of ongoing activity.

Prochnik emphasizes, "The pursuit of silence, likewise, is dissimilar from most other pursuits in that it generally begins with a surrender of the chase, the abandonment of efforts to impose our will and vision on the world."ix Silence then invites not advancement but retreat, not movement forward, but, in Prochnik's words, "a step backward from the tussle of life."x Such meaningful encounters with silence typically arise from "a kind of listening that only occurs after a break in the circuit of busyness."xi

When we finally experience this kind of break, even briefly, we just might begin to recognize the sheer barrenness hidden within our busyness. Our culture has steadily become performative, transactional, and obsessed with productivity at all costs. Ironically, in our relentless pursuit of achievement, efficiency, and measurable outcomes, we've progressively diminished our humanity.

We're increasingly reliant on artificial intelligence and robotics, convinced these technologies will simplify, streamline, and enhance our lives. Yet a troubling paradox emerges: as we engineer human-like qualities into our machines, might these very robots eventually appear more human than we do, precisely because we've lost touch with what makes us genuinely human? Have we become so obsessed with relentless activity and productivity that we've forgotten how to slow down to the quiet, reflective pace that genuine humanity requires?

In the classic 1960s series Lost in Space, whenever faced with something outside its programmed understanding, "Robot" regularly declared, "It does not compute."xii Today, we seem to have unknowingly adopted that very stance when confronted with silence. Rather than embracing stillness as a source of insight and renewal, we regard it anxiously—as an interruption, something incomprehensible because it fails to align with our ingrained addiction to constant activity.

Perhaps our deepest cultural irony lies precisely here: we've become so afraid of missing out that we've already lost sight of what matters most. The joke may truly be on us. In our anxious drive toward perpetual action, we've cultivated precisely the emptiness and inner barrenness we hoped to avoid. The silence we fear is the silence we most desperately need, holding the keys to reclaiming clarity, depth, and the fullness of authentic human life.

Edwin Friedman warned decades ago that "contemporary America has a climate of chronic anxiety," one that hollows out leadership and community life.xiii He defined the remedy as a "non-anxious…presence," someone able to stay connected without being swept into the surrounding panic.xiv Our constant noise keeps that presence out of reach. The faster we run on the cultural treadmill, the more barren the landscape inside becomes. Silence exposes the emptiness, yet it also offers the one path back to wholeness. The question is whether we will dare to pause long enough to let it re-humanize us.

Yet culturally, Prochnik laments, "we've learned to 'mind the gaps' so well that they've all but disappeared," leaving us trapped "in an age of incessancy, under the banner of the already heard and forgotten."xv Silence has become marginalized, even threatened, by our collective discomfort with stillness. Rediscovering it requires intentional pause, a chosen quietness where we learn again to hear clearly what our souls are languishing for when we stop filling the gaps and hear that inner summons to come to the quiet.

Our habitual immersion in noise happens almost unconsciously. Robert Sardello states, "Our choosing to live in the noise of our thoughts and emotions—within the incessant clamor around us—happens almost without our recognition."xvi Precisely because we remain unconscious of this drift, we fail to notice how uncomfortable we become whenever silence makes an appearance. Quiet confronts our chronic drivenness, our perpetual need to accomplish. He wisely observes, "Moments of quiet remind us that we have neglected the core of our being, and we cannot face the implications of this neglect. Anxiety enters. It’s better to keep running away from it."xvii

Anxiety here is precisely what emerges when we pause from constant doing, relentless achieving, endless distractions. But what exactly are we running from? Perhaps from the painful realization that our ongoing noise and activity mask a deep emptiness within. He tells us that our imagination wrongly perceives silence as mere emptiness: "We have a strong tendency to imagine Silence as the absence of sound. This imagination deprives Silence of being anything in itself and makes it an emptiness, a void in what should be the norm."xviii

Misunderstanding silence as merely empty is a misjudgment of the most essential aspect of our experience. Silence is not secondary; it is primary. Sardello clarifies this essential truth: "Silence was here before anything else, and it envelops everything else. It is the most primary phenomenon of existence, both palpably something and seemingly nothing. Silence is prior to sound, not the cessation of sound. It is already present."xix

In fact, silence waits patiently for our awareness. Given  that its presence is already here; we simply have to notice it and experience it. Sardello drives the point home: "If we drop into quietness for just a moment, we feel the presence of Silence as an invitation. The center of our bodily being is the organ for receiving this invitation from the Silence.”xx

Yet, this meeting place must be consciously cultivated. We've forgotten how to live in grounded ways, becoming so cerebral, so caught up in our heads, that we've lost touch with what our bodies continually try to communicate. As a culture, we’re not nearly as present as we imagine ourselves to be. Unless we intentionally slow down and listen, we risk losing contact with the wisdom and depth of our souls, ignoring the vital signals our bodies send, particularly the subtle yet persistent signs of anxiety.

Sardello warns, "When we do not cultivate this meeting point in the right ways, we lose access to our soul, to the presence of the Silence, and to our individual place in the Wisdom of the World. Without Silence, we are lost and cannot get still enough to find our way back."xxi

Silence offers us this restoration, this living invitation. We need only to pause long enough to accept it, allowing our humanity to be restored to us.

It was the father of Existential Psychology in America, Rollo May, who said this,  "It is in the pause that people learn to listen to silence."xxii Indeed, the pause itself invites an awakening to reality that we typically overlook. May notes, "we can hear an infinite number of sounds that we normally never hear at all—the unending hum and buzz of insects in a quiet summer field, a breeze blowing lightly through the golden hay, a thrush singing in the low bushes beyond the meadow."xxiii

If we slow down to the actual speed of life, we might discover how to listen, once more, as though for the first time. Silence is anything but empty; it teems with life. Far from being merely a void, as May insists, "the world of 'silence' is populated by a myriad of creatures and a myriad of sounds."xxiv When we genuinely embrace silence, it reveals a hidden, vibrant landscape, alive with rich detail, unexpected beauty, and deeper meaning.

In the end, silence calls us back to ourselves. It reveals what constant noise has obscured. It allows us to recover the depth of our humanity, the beauty of creation, and the clarity of being fully alive. Our resistance to silence is, ultimately, resistance to this clarity and fullness. Yet, silence waits patiently, perpetually inviting us to pause, to listen, to finally come home to the quiet, waiting reality we have forgotten.








Written by Mark J. Chironna, PhD. - https://www.markchironna.com/
Bishop Mark J. Chironna PhD
Church On The Living Edge
Mark Chironna Ministries
The Issachar Initiative
Order of St. Maxmius
United Theological Seminary, Visiting
Professor, Co-director, House of Pentecostal Studies

Dr. Mark Chironna is a public scholar, executive and personal coach, and thought leader with five decades of experience in leadership development, cultural analysis, and future-focused strategies. With advanced degrees in Psychology, Applied Semiotics and Futures Studies, and Theology, he brings a unique interdisciplinary approach to helping individuals and organizations navigate complexity, unlock potential, and craft innovative solutions.

As a Board Certified Coach with over 30,000 hours of experience, he empowers leaders and teams to thrive through resilience, foresight, and actionable strategies. Passionate about human flourishing, he integrates psychological insight and cultural trends to inspire growth and transformation.

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