How the manosphere found its way into the Black community

In the summer of 2023, I read that YouTube had demonetized a podcast^[1] called “Fresh & Fit,” meaning that the show could no longer earn ad revenue.

While YouTube didn’t point to an inciting incident, the podcast had recently come under fire for hosting white supremacist Nick Fuentes. During the episode^[2], Fuentes had called women “baby machines” and denied the existence of the Holocaust.

Until then, I hadn’t heard of “Fresh & Fit.” But once I learned that the hosts were two young Black men, Myron Gaines and Walter Weekes^[3], I wanted to learn more about what they were saying on their show – and how they said it.

The show is part of the “manosphere”^[4]: online places where men have conversations for, with and about men. Journalists and scholars generally describe younger white men as the most common audiences for manosphere influencers.

As a researcher of male-dominated spaces^[5], I wondered: Were Gaines and Weekes specifically trying to target Black male followers? And, if so, how were they pulling this off?

As I listened to their episodes, I started noticing something interesting – the two hosts regularly used language to appeal to Black men. They spoke in the parlance of social justice movements, but applied it, in a twisted way, to justify misogyny and male superiority.

Enter the manosphere

I study male subcultures such as gaming^[6] and the military^[7] to see the types of rhetoric and behaviors that get rewarded and which kinds of topics are avoided.

There’s the widespread belief that men don’t express their feelings well^[8] or have a hard time being vulnerable.

The manosphere purports to upend that notion^[9]. On podcasts, YouTube series and discussion boards, men get into the weeds about their lives, their relationships and the challenges they face.

Some have argued that these interviews, posts and threads can be healthy and productive^[10]. But the manosphere generally evokes controversial internet personalities such as Andrew Tate^[11] and Jordan Peterson^[12], who have become notorious for their misogynistic and homophobic tirades. Tate doesn’t just say outrageous stuff – he’s been charged with sex trafficking^[13] and is awaiting trial in Romania.

To Tate and Peterson, being a better man isn’t about learning to be more vulnerable. Instead, they argue that straight men have become marginalized in a society that’s gotten too soft, too effeminate and too politically correct. In their view, men need to embrace their traditional roles as protectors, providers and producers.

Research has shown that young men in particular are receptive to these ideas^[15]. Of course, young Black men make up some of this cohort. But they rarely get mentioned in critiques of the manosphere.

Fitness, health … and Fuentes

“Fresh & Fit” bills itself as a discussion on men’s fitness, fashion and mental health.

Gaines is author of the book “Why Women Deserve Less^[16],” in which he writes, “Women are benefiting unfairly at nearly every man’s expense.”

Weekes is a business mogul who firmly believes in meritocracy; he credits his success to his own hard work, a point he eagerly reiterates on a number of episodes.

The show normally involves commentary from the hosts about current events, and they’ll often feature guests ranging from CrossFit coaches and gym owners to more controversial interviewees like Fuentes and conservative political commentator Candace Owens^[17].

The YouTube shows are wildly popular, with some episodes garnering hundreds of thousands of views.

There’s also a spinoff, “Fresh & Fit After Hours,” which tends to include panels of young women. During these conversations, the women – who usually work in fields such as modeling, sex work or professional dance – often find themselves put on the spot by the hosts, who ask them to speak on behalf of all women.

Locker-room talk

I listened to 40 randomly selected episodes of the main show and 25 of the “After Hours” show, and the conversations veered into explorations of gender differences and debates about why men are better than women. All of these elements fall under what sociolinguist Scott Kiesling^[18] calls “masculine linguistic practices” – the ways in which men express their masculinity in conversation with one another.

Each episode is replete with misogyny. On one, Gaines encourages listeners^[19] to not go to Miami – not because it’s too expensive or it’s too hot, but because the women in South Beach think they’re “better than you.” On another, when talking about what men are looking for in a partner, he notes, “When we look for security in y'all, it’s security in making sure the kid is ours. And a woman that has a promiscuous past might continue that trend in the future.”

Gaines and Weekes do give a platform to women – but it’s to women who echo the hosts’ warped theories on gender.

In several of the “Fresh & Fit After Hours” episodes I watched, the hosts booked female guests who often admitted that they are status-conscious opportunists – that they want to be taken care of, that they expect men to give them gifts, and that they should be treated “like a lady.”

In one episode of “After Hours,” when a guest says she wishes men could approach her without being overly flirtatious, Gaines is quick to undermine her: Surely she gets approached by men every day. But are they all flirtatious?

Then he throws out another question: How many of the men she ended up dating hadn’t flirted with her?

She holds up her hand in the shape of a zero.

Messages that resonate with Black listeners

Watching “Fresh & Fit” also showed me how the hosts sought to specifically appeal to Black viewers and listeners.

I think it’s important to note that although Black men are highly susceptible to being seen as a collective group, they aren’t a monolith. Many Black men hold conservative views^[20]. Instances of homophobia, misogyny and transphobia are as common among Black Americans^[21] as they are among white Americans.

In other words, there isn’t any sort of cultural insulation that would protect Black men from negative messages in the manosphere, and the hosts subtly use language and imagery common to Black culture to inculcate Black listeners to their views.

Gaines and Weekes invariably slip in and out of African American Vernacular English, which conveys not only authenticity but also forges a connection with Black listeners^[22].

Additionally, a common theme is the degree to which men are being “kept down.” In the context of their show, “kept down” refers to the ways in which women constrain them. But in Black culture, the phrase is commonly used to talk about the ways in which the dominant white culture forces them to behave or act a certain way^[23].

Criminal law scholar Paul Butler refers to the impact of those stereotypes about Black men as “black male exceptionalism^[24].”

To Butler, commonly repeated statistics about Black men – their higher incarceration rates, worse education outcomes and lower employment rates – reinforce the idea of Black men as an “endangered species^[25].” My upcoming research expands on this, exploring how the internalization of this exceptionalism can be a self-fulfilling prophecy.

The darker corners of the manosphere stoke beliefs about disenfranchisement and discrimination against men. So it’s worth pointing out that these messages can easily resonate among minority men, too.

If they listen to Gaines and Weekes, they’ll come away from the episodes thinking that it isn’t just racism keeping them down: It’s women, too.

References

1. ^{^} had demonetized a podcast (www.businessinsider.com)
2. ^{^} During the episode (www.mediamatters.org)
3. ^{^} Myron Gaines and Walter Weekes (nypost.com)
4. ^{^} is part of the “manosphere” (theconversation.com)
5. ^{^} As a researcher of male-dominated spaces (www.researchgate.net)
6. ^{^} gaming (doi.org)
7. ^{^} the military (doi.org)
8. ^{^} that men don’t express their feelings well (www.psychologytoday.com)
9. ^{^} upend that notion (theconversation.com)
10. ^{^} these interviews, posts and threads can be healthy and productive (www.theguardian.com)
11. ^{^} Andrew Tate (www.nytimes.com)
12. ^{^} Jordan Peterson (nymag.com)
13. ^{^} he’s been charged with sex trafficking (apnews.com)
14. ^{^} Daniel Mihailescu/AFP via Getty Images (www.gettyimages.com)
15. ^{^} are receptive to these ideas (doi.org)
16. ^{^} Why Women Deserve Less (www.amazon.com)
17. ^{^} Candace Owens (variety.com)
18. ^{^} Scott Kiesling (doi.org)
19. ^{^} Gaines encourages listeners (www.youtube.com)
20. ^{^} hold conservative views (www.rollingstone.com)
21. ^{^} are as common among Black Americans (www.npr.org)
22. ^{^} but also forges a connection with Black listeners (theconversation.com)
23. ^{^} forces them to behave or act a certain way (www.npr.org)
24. ^{^} black male exceptionalism (www.cambridge.org)
25. ^{^} endangered species (www.washingtonpost.com)